Q. A colleague who sits next to me at work
has a propensity to break wind violently whenever he feels inclined to do so. Far from being embarrassed by these eructations, as I imagine most people would be, he seems to see it as a social indelicacy on a par with coughing or slurping coffee: that is to say, not necessarily polite but certainly nothing to apologise for. Needless to say, I feel rather differently. How do I broach the subject without awkwardness? I have tried getting up and walking away every time the malodorous offences are committed, but he doesn't take the hint. Whether this has anything to do with the fact that he is American, and unaware of British standards of office etiquette, I couldn't say, but! am reaching the end of my tether.
Name and address withheld A. You surprise me in reporting that this colleague is American. It is very unusual for anyone outside the English upper classes to revel in the sort of gaseous discharges you mention. Perhaps you are trying to conceal the identity of the true offender. In any case, the solution is readily available. With the assistance of standard-issue stink bombs, available from any joke shop, you can create an atmosphere of perma-nausea in the vicinity of your colleague's desk. Once the offence 'impacts' upon more workers than the man's immediate neighbours, an investigation will be triggered at the highest level and you should soon see an end to the nuisance.
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